Married Affairs – When is it Okay For You To Cheat on Your Spouse?
Did you know
that according to a recent study by Buss and Shackelford, as many as
60% of all adults will engage in married affairs at
some point through the course of their spousal relationship?
Now let me ask
you a question: How many of those 60% do you think are happier now than
they were while being faithful to their marriage?
Probably quite a few of them, honestly. I mean, anything's better than feeling trapped in a bad relationship, right?
But how do you
know that your marriage is one that could benefit from an affair? How
can you be sure that your circumstances warrant cheating?
Well, as you continue reading I'd like to help you make that decision.
When Was the Last Time You and Your Spouse Had Intimate Sex?
Although most women hate to admit it, sex is actually an integral part of every relationship.
If you and your spouse have seen a decline in sexual intimacy, then
you're virtually guaranteed to start seeing problems elsewhere in the
marriage.
Unfortunately
this puts you in somewhat of a "Catch 22" - The more problems you have
in a relationship, the more beneficial sexual intimacy can be,
while at the same time, the more problems you have the less you want to have sex.
So, if sexual
intimacy is a thing of the past in your marriage, then that's probably
a good sign that your marriage could benefit from an affair.
The trial-by-fire nature of infidelity will either reawaken the flames
of passion in your marriage, or finally sever the connection between
you and your spouse.
When Was the Last Time You Fantasized About Someone Else?
As things get
worse in your relationship, generally you'll notice an increase in the
amount of fantasies you have involving people besides your spouse.
The reason for this is simple - When all your needs are being met, your brain/heart sees no reason to look elsewhere.
On the other hand, when things start falling apart you'll naturally
start looking for a safer place; many times that 'safer place' ends up
being the arms of
another man/woman.
When you find
yourself constantly fantasizing about someone besides your spouse, then
you need to do a reality check and figure out for yourself how
much you really want this affair?
If you think
that your sexual fantasies are rooted in something besides problems in
your marriage, then take some time to analyze where they're coming from
so you can fix it.
If, on the other
hand, you're 100% sure that only an affair is what will make you happy,
then by all means, do what you need to do.
Whatever Your Decision - Make Sure You Stick to Your Guns
This is a
confusing time in your life, and that's to be expected. However, in the
end there's one thing that's more important than anything else:
That you enjoy your life!
If there's any
part of you that will always regret it if you don't act now while you
have the chance and are still young enough and fit enough to do it,
then by all means go ahead and have an affair while you still have the
opportunity. Just don't back down on your decision once you've already
made it happen.
Now here is how to discreetly meet others who are in a similar situation to yourself and arrange a no-strings encounter...
CAUTION:not every person issuitable for having an affair and extramarital affairs are nota substitute foreither fixing a marriage (or finishinga
marriage if it is beyond repair), because not allaffairs have a positiveimpact ona relationship
and some
can even be harmful. So always think
about other people and if you decide to go ahead and have an affair make sure to use discretion and discernment and always choose
your partner wisely.
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